A Different Kind of Love

There is something so special about Colton. It's a different kind of love. A love that just makes your heart melt and explode and smile all at the same time. It's hard to explain, but it's true. Multiple family members have told me that they feel the same way. I guess it's because we all know that Colton is special. He has special needs and he requires extra attention...and he has to do a lot of things that seem unfair because of that extra chromosome. But 99% of the time he does them with a smile on his face. He is a rockstar. And I would venture to guess that he just might be the family favorite. And I hope nobody in the family takes offense to that...because Colton is just in a league of his own.



These two boys are Colton's cousins, Tyler and Tanner. Their love for Colton is something fierce. They always want to Facetime to see Colton and they LOVE watching his videos. They always ask me, "Aunt Carrie, when Colton comes to visit, can I help put on his pajamas and change his diaper?" They want to hold him and kiss him and play games with him.



My sister has talked to them about Colton having Down Syndrome. Tyler is 6 and is old enough to understand. A few weeks ago, my sister sent me a text about a conversation she had with Tyler. Apparently, they have some friends who are pregnant with a third baby and my sister was talking to Tyler about it. She said, "Tyler, Mommy will not be having a 3rd child. Did you want one?" He said, "Well, no." Then he went into deep thought. He hugged his Mommy and said, "Mommy, the ONLY way I would ever want you to have a baby is if you could promise me that the baby would be JUST perfect like Colton and have Down Syndrome, too. Otherwise, I don't want one."

Y'all, that brings tears to my eyes! How sweet! Even a 6 year old gets it! Even a 6 year old knows how special Colton is.



What is really cool is that Tyler's teacher has a grown daughter with Down Syndrome. How crazy is that?



If you have children, I encourage you to talk to them about children with Special Needs, when you feel the time is right. Teach them about Colton. I want kids to love and appreciate Colton for who he is. They will find that he's more alike than different. He's happy and fun and just likes to play. It just takes him a little longer to learn and progress. And if you have any questions or concerns about how to approach it, please feel free to ask! Your children will benefit greatly from having friends with Special Needs. We are SO blessed to have Colton in our family.



We absolutely adore Colton. What a special gift he is to our family. We are all better people because of him. He has taught us to slow down and focus on what is truly important in life. We are so lucky that we get to experience a different kind of love.

"Nothing is closer to Heaven on Earth than having a Special Needs child in your home." www.leftwithasmile.com

"You weren't like other children,
And God was well aware,
You'd need a caring family,
With love enough to share.
And so He sent you to us,
And much to our surprise,
You haven't been a challenge,
But a blessing in disguise.
Your winning smiles and laughter,
The pleasures you impart,
Far outweigh your special needs,
And melt the coldest heart.
We're proud that we've been chosen,
To help you learn and grow,
The job that you have brought us,
Is more than you can know.
A precious gift from Heaven,
A treasure from above,
A child who's taught us many things,
But most of all- Real Love."

-Spectrum Superstars